Incorporate tradition into your modern world with these tips for easily drafting thank-you notes for every occasion.
A delicious, home-cooked meal.
An extendedstay at your friend’s house.
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So what better way to express your gratitude than with a thank-you note?
In fact, thank-you noteshave been traced backto as far as the 15th century.
Do you should probably send handwritten thank-you notes?
So can you text a thank you?
The answer isn’t always so cut and dry.
For example, she says an electronic thank you is permissible if your friend treats you to lunch.
So when do it’s crucial that you bust out the pen and paper?
When should you send thank-you notes?
Not to stress you out or anything, but thank-you notes should be sent out pronto.
“If you have to ask, it probably should have already been sent.”
“Thank-you notes should be mailed out immediately,” he says.
“Even if that’s before the wedding.”
That said, Leighton acknowledges therearesome exceptions to the rule especially if time is of the essence.
What should you write in a thank-you note?
Now, the million dollar question: What are you supposed towritein a thank-you note?
The good news is that your letter doesn’t have to be a modern-day masterpiece.
“The beauty of a thank-you note is in its simplicity.
To help, Lyons breaks down the perfect thank-you note into five easy steps.
If they are a married couple, be sure to address them both here.
If you are sending a thank you for money, “your generosity” is a lovely alternative.
If you are sending thanks after an event, mention what a great time you had.
Sign politely
“With gratitude” and “cordially” are both classics.
Mail promptly
How should you word your thank-you?
I am looking forward to using it [describe action or appropriate time you will use it].”
I am so grateful to have you as a [relationship]."
Now that you know the basics, go out and stock up on thank-you notes.
You’ll be happy to have them on hand when the need arises.
Try wording like this: “Thank you so much for celebrating our wedding day with us.
We were so glad to have you by our sides on our special day.”
Try wording it like this: “Thank you so much for [the gift or money].
[Mention how you will use the gift or money.]
We missed you at the wedding but we hope to see you soon.”
