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As much as I love her, I donotlike traveling with her.
Shes indecisive about whether to go and, once there, indecisive and passive-aggressive the whole time.
Chaos ensues, and nothing is accomplished.
Id like to vacation with other friends and not invite her.
Can I do this?
If so, how?
JENNA BUSH HAGER:If you want to travel with just one other friend, its OK.
If youre planning a group trip without her, thats hurting somebodys feelings and not cool.
Think about how you would feel if the roles were reversed.HODA KOTB:I agree.
If you pick one other friend, thats fine.
Or state your plans and tell her she can come or not.
Set clear expectations, tell her when the cars leaving, and youve done your job!
Dont let her draw you into the drama.
See what he thinks of the situation and what he suggests.
Im curious what he says to her when she calls with this info.
Does he brush her off?
Is he as annoyed as you are?
Can he ask her to stand down?
HK:Definitely check in with your husband first.
And yes, try talking to her on your ownbefore you change your parameters!
Should you offer to pay for the services to fix their hair?
Everyone swims at their own risk.
Shes the one who chose to go swimming after a friend (you!)
Thatd be on me!
And I wouldnt pay for it either!
Pushing (Neighborly) Boundaries
DONNA ASKS:We have a new neighbor with large dogs.
Our property boundary is lined with bushes, dense bamboo, and plants.
They want to put up a fence and asked to talk to us about the design and cost.
HK:Id say something like I understand you want a fence.
Were really happy with the bamboo, but you’re able to do what you want!
JBH:Id leave out that last part unless they actually ask you to contribute.
Give them the benefit of the doubt and say, Thank you for running the design by us.
If we assume good intentions, thats really nice that theyre being so considerate!
Let them see that you appreciate it.
