We consulted a therapist and professional organizer for insight and tips on how to (realistically) tidy up.

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There are two kinds of people in this world: neat and messy.

If youre a messy person, life can feel a bit more challenging and frustrating.

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It can be difficult to find things, and the aesthetic of your home might never feel quite right.

Changing isnt easy, but it isnt impossible either.

Heres how to become a neater person even if youre naturally messy.

Maybe it will make you feel more relaxed or less scattered," she says.

Take time to understand your motivation and intentions.

Many people get overwhelmed with mess," says professional organizer Emily Preciado-Fonseca.

“To help with that, pick a room to start in.

Preciado-Fonseca advises simplifying and decluttering as much as possible.

Excess leads to mess,” she says.

So double-check you take the time to get rid of items in those categories.

Lastly,commit to decluttering regularly.

The toaster has a space, and the coffee mugs, and the toothbrush," Scott says.

It also helps you clearly see when something is out of place and prompts you to correct it.

However, things like drawer dividers will.

Once those baskets are full, return things to where they belong," Preciado-Fonseca says.

“The key is that these be areas that contain and hide a mess.

A desktop isnt a good drop zone because its just a mess on top of a desk.

Be Patient With Yourself

Give yourself some grace.

After all, major change isnt always easy.

Preciado-Fonseca suggests being patient with yourself while you work to incorporate better habits into your routine.

Also, dont judge yourself for it.

It can get better.