Now this is how you win the best houseguest award.
(Trust us, this is how you get invited back.)
Don’t be vague or hope to extend your stay once you arrive.
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Of course, there is a chance they might extend an offer, but don’t make assumptions.
The last thing you want to do is take advantage of your host.
You may call it spontaneous and fun, but your cousin and their spouse may call it inconvenient.
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However, there’s no need to haul something huge or extravagant all the way there.
Headed to someone’s vacation house?
Get them something on theme: beach towels or a cocktail-themed gift would be perfect.
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When you arrive, gently inquire about how things are done to avoid any misunderstandings.
What time does everyone usually wake up and go to bed?
Anything you should know about the kids or pets?
Should you leave the thermostat alone?
Pick up on other house rules by being in tune with your hosts.
Also, refrain from finishing the coffee or milk (but if you do, replace it).
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When in doubt, err on the side of modesty.
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Be Extremely Helpful
Unhelpful guests are rarely invited back.
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Even if you’re turned down, the hosts will appreciate the gesture.
Let your host know your plans and when you think you will get back.
They’ll likely be happy to offer theirs, but first demonstrate that you’re not a mooch.
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Often, visitors also expect hosts to plan activities for everyone.
That way, they won’t feel solely responsible for keeping you entertained during your trip.
For example, maybe you used their honey or milk every morning for you tea or coffee.
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The last thing you want is for your host to have to hire a cleaner after your stay.
On your last day, triple-check the bedroom and bathroom for your belongings.
Strip the sheets and put them in a pillowcase at the foot of the bed.
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Do a quick wipe-down of the counters in the bathroom for toothpaste, extra cups, or loose hair.
Here, an email won’t cut it.
Finish with an offer to open up your own next time.
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Otherwise, mail your card within two or three days of your visit.
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